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Accepting our Children’s Thoughts and Feelings

When kids feel judged and evaluated by their parents, they are much more likely to look for acceptance from peers. Having a connection with peers is great, and yet we want our kids to get their values from us parents, … Continue reading

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Energy Speaks Louder Than Words, and The Power of Love

I recently spent two weeks with my daughter, her husband and my grandson.  My grandson is a delight – bright, funny, loving, affectionate, engaging, strong willed and two and a half! So I got to practice what I’ve been preaching; … Continue reading

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Book Review: The One Thing Holding You Back, by Raphael Cushnir

This book, by Raphael Cushnir, puts into clear articulation what I have known and taught for a long time; every part of us – every feeling, emotion and energetic self within, wants to be loved. And the most unconditional form … Continue reading

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The Importance of No

Many of us never had our “no” honored as children. The period of our lives when we are usually learning this important word is often referred to as the “terrible twos.” As if learning to have a boundary, learning to … Continue reading

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The Inner Victimizer

It’s been almost a year since I’ve posted. I realized that it’s the victimizer, inner critic, sensor (call it what you like) within that hasn’t let me post anything. It’s amazing how sneaky that part of us can be. It’s … Continue reading

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Working with the Inner Victimizer

Give yourself at least 15 or 20 minutes. Don’t think too much about it, and just write down all the negative things the victimizer says about you. This is the voice that doesn’t believe in you, doesn’t believe you’re smart … Continue reading

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More on the Inner Victimizer

The victimizer can be very sneaky, and it is not always obvious when it is taking over. We get so used to it, it is like background noise that we no longer notice. In other words, we don’t necessarily hear … Continue reading

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